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Spencer needs the crew to land on a weekend. Vote for one of the options below — or suggest your own — to unlock the site.

May 21–24, 2027
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June 18–21, 2027
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July 16–19, 2027
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August 20–23, 2027
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SPENCER'S LAST “HURRAH”
One last trip before he says I DO
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The Final Send-Off

INTO THE
WILD WE GO

You are invited to Spencer's send-off. Pick a date, pick a location, and get ready for some fun.

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Three locations. One choice.

Spencer has chosen three locations for his bachelor trip but wants to leave the ultimate decision up to his friends. Read about each location and vote accordingly under the RSVP tab.

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May 21–24, 2027
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June 18–21, 2027
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July 16–19, 2027
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August 20–23, 2027
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BEND, OREGON

The classic combo: real Cascades hiking by day, a lazy tube float down the Deschutes by afternoon, and 30+ breweries by night. Fly into Redmond (RDM), it's about 20 minutes to town. This one's the crowd-pleaser — good for a mixed-fitness group.

RDMFly into Redmond
ModerateDifficulty
$$Cost level
30+Breweries in town
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Pros

  • Easy river float, no experience needed
  • Smith Rock is a legit, dramatic hike
  • Best brewery scene of the three, by far

Cons

  • Float gets crowded on hot weekends
  • Least "off-grid," most touristy option
  • Smith Rock is a 30 min drive from town
Smith Rock State Park
Deschutes River float
Downtown Bend

✈️ Flights for the crew

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SFO → RDM
Albert, Charlie, Isaiah
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FAT → RDM
Matthew
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PHX → RDM
Jonah, Andre
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ORD → RDM
Daniel
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Hike, Float, Brewery Crawl

THU/FRI
  • ArrivalLand at RDM, check in, drop bags
  • EveningDinner + first round at Deschutes Brewery, the original taproom
DAY 02
  • 8:00 AMDrive to Smith Rock State Park (30 min)
  • 9:00 AMMisery Ridge Trail hike, 3.8 miles, dramatic canyon views
  • 2:00 PMTube or kayak the Deschutes, Riverbend Park to Drake Park (~2 hrs)
  • 8:00 PMGroup dinner, Old Mill District
DAY 03
  • 9:00 AMSunrise hike up Pilot Butte, 30–45 min round trip, 360° Cascades views
  • 1:00 PMOptional: Big Eddy whitewater rafting thriller run
  • 6:00 PMBrewery crawl: Crux Fermentation, Bevel, 10 Barrel
  • 9:00 PMRoast the groom, last night out
MON
  • MorningCoffee, pack up, fly out of RDM
FLAGSTAFF, ARIZONA

Flagstaff itself sits at 7,000 ft in the pines, but the real draw is what's an hour away in every direction: Sedona's red rocks for hiking, and the Verde River south of town for a kayak float and wine stop. Fly into Phoenix (PHX) for way more flight options, then it's a 2.5 hr drive up — or fly directly into tiny Flagstaff Pulliam (FLG) if the group's small.

PHX/FLGAirport options
ModerateDifficulty
$$Cost level
7,000 ftElevation, pack layers
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Pros

  • Sedona's red rock hikes are unreal, unlike anything else on the list
  • Verde River kayak + vineyard stop is a genuinely fun day
  • Cooler mountain air, good break from desert heat

Cons

  • No river float right in town, it's all a drive away
  • Most spread-out itinerary of the three
  • FLG airport is tiny, PHX means a longer drive

✈️ Flights for the crew

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SFO → PHX
Albert, Charlie, Isaiah
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FAT → PHX
Matthew
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PHX → PHX
Jonah, Andre
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ORD → PHX
Daniel
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Red Rocks & River

THU/FRI
  • ArrivalLand at PHX or FLG, drive up, check in
  • EveningDinner in downtown Flagstaff, drinks at the Gopher Hole Pub
DAY 02
  • 8:00 AMDrive to Sedona (45 min)
  • 9:00 AMRed rock day hike with a guided outfitter
  • 1:00 PMDrive to the Verde River (30 min from Sedona)
  • 2:00 PMKayak the Verde + winery tasting stop along the water
DAY 03
  • 9:00 AMHike near Flagstaff, or optional Grand Canyon day trip (80 mi)
  • 7:00 PMSteak dinner, roast the groom
  • 9:00 PMCountry dancing at the Museum Club on Route 66
MON
  • MorningCoffee, drive back to the airport, fly out
DURANGO, CO

Whitewater rafting the Animas by day, legendary San Juan Mountains singletrack for the mountain bikers in the crew, and a laid-back brewery scene by night. Fly into Durango-La Plata County (DRO), about 15 minutes to downtown. Best pick for a group that actually wants to get after it outdoors.

DROFly into Durango-La Plata
ChallengingDifficulty
$$Cost level
6,512'Elevation in town
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Pros

  • Legendary mountain biking, this town basically invented the sport
  • Animas River rafting is a real rush, Class III rapids
  • Historic downtown + laid-back brewery scene

Cons

  • Highest altitude of the three, expect to feel it
  • Smaller airport, flights are pricier and less direct
  • Less lounging, more "get after it" energy

✈️ Flights for the crew

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SFO → DRO
Albert, Charlie, Isaiah
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FAT → DRO
Matthew
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PHX → DRO
Jonah, Andre
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ORD → DRO
Daniel
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Rapids By Day, Singletrack By Afternoon

THU/FRI
  • ArrivalLand at DRO, drive into downtown Durango (15 min)
  • EveningDinner + drinks at Steamworks Brewing
DAY 02
  • 9:00 AMWhitewater rafting the Animas River (Class III)
  • 1:00 PMLunch downtown
  • 3:00 PMMountain bike Horse Gulch trails, rentals available
  • 7:00 PMDinner at Ska Brewing
DAY 03
  • 10:00 AMDurango & Silverton Narrow Gauge scenic train, or a San Juan National Forest hike
  • 2:00 PMFree time: fly fishing, spa, or just the patio
  • 8:00 PMRoast the groom, downtown bar crawl
MON
  • MorningCoffee, drive back to DRO, fly out

Who's going

Seven guys, one groom-to-be, zero adult supervision. Still waiting on a photo of Andre.

Albert
Bridal Party
The first person I met in college. I remember getting out of my car to get my dorm keys, and along walks Albert, who had moved in a couple of days prior — he met me before I could even open the back. When I walked up to my dorm, I learned me and Albert were neighbors. Albert has remained a key part of my life for many years and regularly gets visits from me in his cool SF bachelor pad.
PHOTO
COMING SOON
Andre
Bridal Party
The first time I met Andre he told me straight up that he could cook me in Fortnite. I still think this is true today — he can also beat me up, but he knows all things fitness.
Charlie
Bridal Party
You know how they say surround yourself with people smarter than you? Charlie is the epitome of that quote. Charlie and I met through high school cross country and have remained in touch ever since. Through his long moves across the country to running my first half marathon with him, I have shared many literal hills and valleys with Charlie. At the time of writing this he is training for a marathon and I am training to fix my bum knee — let's see where I stand next year!
Daniel
Bridal Party
Me and Daniel met through our shared dorm room on Cereus 4. Many nights I would come over and watch Daniel beat me at Super Smash Bros. for the tenth time, vowing I would someday beat his Luigi. Maybe this trip we can set the record straight 😤. Through the 4+ years I lived with Daniel he helped me keep my bearings straight, and I can't wait for him to join me on my wedding day.
Isaiah
Bridal Party
Isaiah and I met through high school cross country. The type of guy you go to when you are in your feels and need a good playlist for it. "Isaiah is faster than me" is an accurate statement, and one that 16-year-old Spencer would be ashamed to admit. I admire Isaiah's ability to show up for others when they need him, and his drip — ask him about his Rolex.
Jonah
Bridal Party
I am not sure I have met someone more technically competent than Jonah. Roommate to Daniel (see above) freshman year, I immediately clicked with Jonah. His love of bikes inspired my love of bikes, and to this day his music interest has led me down many wonderful paths and good song discovery. Look for this guy to recommend the best new artist!
Matthew
Bridal Party
Everyone knows his name. Now you get to meet him for real. A man I would feel very comfortable putting as my backup emergency contact, Matthew is one of my most loyal friends.

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